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Týmto mojím blogom chcem nadviazať na môj predošlý blog o referende na ochranu rodiny. Keď som ho písala, vôbec som netušila, že jeho téma vyvolá takú veľkú odozvu u diskutujúcich, ktorá rezonovala v uplynulé dni aj v ďalších podobne zameraných blogoch.
Keď som písala blog o referende, pôvodne som si myslela, že sa bude diskusia týkať najmä prvých dvoch otázok referenda. Neskôr sa ukázalo, ze značná časť komentarov sa tykala prave nazorov na sexualnu vychovu v školách.
Týmto blogom reagujem aj na čast diskusie, v ktorej diskutujuci polemizovali medzi sebou, či je vhodne, aby homosexualne pary mali moznost adoptovat a vychovavat adoptovane deti, alebo nie.
Natrafila som na jednu vedecku studiu, ktora sa zaobera vyskumom toho, v ktorych charakteristikach sa deti vyrastajuce v rodinach rodicov, ktorí mali homosexualne vztahy, odlisovali od deti, ktore vyrastali v rodinach s heterosexualnymi rodicmi.
Tato studia priniesla pomerne zavazne zistenia -   tykajuce sa napriklad aj castejsieho vyskytu sexualneho zneuzivania detí v rodinách homosexuálnych párov. U detí, ktoré vyrastali v rodinách homosexuálnych párov, v porovnaní s deťmi, ktoré vyrastali v heterosexuálnych rodinách, sa v dospelosti častejšie vyskytovali homosexuálne vzťahy, depresia, pobyt vo väzení a v prípade žien vychovávaných homosexuálnymi pármi aj častejšie striedanie sexuálnych partnerov.

Nemam cas to teraz prekladat, tak aspon male zhrnutie vysledkov v anglictine:

Compared with children raised by their married biological parents (IBF), children of homosexual parents (LM and GF):

- Are much more likely to have received welfare (IBF 17%; LM 69%; GF 57%)
- Have lower educational attainment
- Report less safety and security in their family of origin
- Report more ongoing "negative impact" from their family of origin
- Are more likely to suffer from depression
- Have been arrested more often
- If they are female, have had more sexual partners--both male and female

The following, however, are some additional areas in which the children of lesbian mothers (who represented 71% of all the children with homosexual parents in this study) differed from the IBF children, in ways that were statistically significant in both a direct comparison and with controls. Children of lesbian mothers:

- Are more likely to be currently cohabiting
- Are almost 4 times more likely to be currently on public assistance
- Are less likely to be currently employed full-time
- Are more than 3 times more likely to be unemployed
- Are nearly 4 times more likely to identify as something other than entirely - heterosexual
- Are 3 times as likely to have had an affair while married or cohabiting
- Are an astonishing 10 times more likely to have been "touched sexually by a - parent or other adult caregiver."
- Are nearly 4 times as likely to have been "physically forced" to have sex     against their will
- Are more likely to have "attachment" problems related to the ability to depend on others
- Use marijuana more frequently
- Smoke more frequently
- Watch TV for long periods more frequently
- Have more often pled guilty to a non-minor offense

Children of lesbian mothers are 75% more likely, and children of homosexual fathers are 3 times more likely, to be currently in a same-sex romantic relationship.

The same holds true with the number of sexual partners. Both males and females who were raised by both lesbian mothers and homosexual fathers have more opposite-sex (heterosexual) partners than children of married biological parents (daughters of homosexual fathers had twice as many). But the differences in homosexual conduct are even greater. The daughters of lesbians have 4 times as many female (that is, same-sex) sexual partners than the daughters of married biological parents, and the daughters of homosexual fathers have 6 times as many. Meanwhile, the sons of both lesbian mothers and homosexual fathers have 7 times as many male (same-sex) sexual partners as sons of married biological parents.

The most shocking and troubling outcomes, however, are those related to sexual abuse. Children raised by a lesbian mother were 10 times more likely to have been "touched sexually by a parent or other adult caregiver" (23% reported this, vs. only 2% for children of married biological parents), while those raised by a homosexual father were 3 times more likely (reported by 6%). In his text, but not in his charts, Regnerus breaks out these figures for only female victims, and the ratios remain similar (3% IBF; 31% LM; 10% GF). As to the question of whether you have "ever been physically forced" to have sex against your will (not necessarily in childhood), affirmative answers came from 8% of children of married biological parents, 31% of children of lesbian mothers (nearly 4 times as many), and 25% of the children of homosexual fathers (3 times as many). Again, when Regnerus breaks these figures out for females (who are more likely to be victims of sexual abuse in general), such abuse was reported by 14% of IBFs, but 3 times as many of the LMs (46%) and GFs (52%).

Po anglicky sice rozumiem, ale nemam cas to prekladat. (Ak by ste mali niekto čas to prelozit aj pre ludi, ktorí az tak dobre po anglicky nevedia, aby si to mohli precitat, tak iniciative sa medze nekladu, mozte to napisat v komentaroch k blogu.) Ja na to čas nemam.

Pridavam tu 3 odkazy na webstranky.

1. ODKAZ - Je kratke zhrnutie v slovencine:

http://afinabul.blog.cz/1301/deti-vychovavane-parmi-rovnakeho-pohlavia-viac-inklinuju-k-samovrazdam

2. ODKAZ - Je clanok v anglictine zo stranky Family research council o zaveroch vyskumu Marka Regnerusa, ktory tuto studiu napisal.

http://www.frc.org/issuebrief/new-study-on-homosexual-parents-tops-all-previous-research


3. Odkaz - Samotna Regnerusova vedecka studia - jej abstrakt:
http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0049089X12000610

Ak vas nieco zaujalo alebo prekvapilo na vysledkoch tohoto vyskumu o detoch, ktore vyrastali v rodinach homosexualov, respektíve, ak by ste sa chceli ešte vyjadrit k celej tejto problematike adopcii deti homosexualnymi parmi, mozte sa k tomu vyjadrit v komentaroch k blogu.

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